My greatest weakness is that I am toooo lazy. To say it in a more straight-forward way, I am too cold blooded that I don\’t care most of the things that\’s going on around me, so I take no actions.
Friends.
When I was still in high school, 90% of people\’s first impression on me is that I am a difficult person, and that they are afraid to speak to me or something. I think things get better when I have joined university. The reason why, which I know perfectly, is that, I am not interested in them, I don\’t have the passion of meeting people. When they are strangers to me, I don\’t care, it is after that I have know them a little bit, I find something interesting to me in them, then I become \’friendly\’.
I don\’t really see it as a weakness actually. Although I loss some amazing people that might be able to be in my life, that I am not even welcoming them to try, I got a lot of jerk out of my life too. I am really not good at dealing annoying people, so it\’s good that I could just don\’t let any of them into my life in the first place.
Opportunities.
I let go most of the opportunities that didn\’t caught me eye in the first glance, I only go for the one I find useful or interesting.
Take answering a question in class as the example. It\’s not that I don\’t have the ability, I can think of an answer if I want to, but it is that I know that if i don\’t stand up, eventually some one will, and it will free me from thinking and answeing that question, from further questions and the teachers\’ attention as well. So I shut up, and sometimes I don\’t even start thinking because I find the question boring or less important.
But actually, process are made gradually, one couldn\’t suddenly be so great at something, and I have let go so many opportunities which actually could be mine.
Why bother? People need some respect, and they deserve it. I\’m not sure I can call it my weakness after I write this post. But that\’s me, and that\’s the change I find I could make, and I\’m not working on it.